I’m so glad you’re here….
WELCOME TO MY BLOG
Here you’ll find personal stories from my pro-sport journey alongside practical mindset and productivity tools designed to help you overcome obstacles and achieve your goals.
My aim is to show you that no matter the challenge, there’s always a way forward—and to provide simple, actionable strategies you can use today to build confidence, focus, and momentum.
Whether you’re struggling with overwhelm, motivation, or goal-setting, you’ll find inspiration and tools here to support your journey.
the latest posts
the latest posts
Where Can I Find Online Courses on Performance and Mindset Coaching?
If you are looking for online courses on performance and mindset coaching, the challenge is not finding options but choosing one that genuinely improves how you operate. This article explains what to look for in performance courses and how sport-inspired approaches translate into real results.
Can You Recommend Resources for Learning Sport-Inspired Performance Strategies?
Sport-inspired performance strategies are everywhere, but not all are practical or grounded in real performance environments. This article explores where to find credible sport-inspired resources and how to apply them effectively in work, leadership and everyday life.
How to Build Confidence and Self-Belief at Work: 20 Practical Exercises
Confidence is not something you find. It is something you build through action, preparation and execution. This article shares 20 practical exercises to build confidence and self-belief at work using lessons from elite sport.
How Can I Develop a High-Performance Mindset for My Career?
A high-performance mindset is not about motivation or confidence. It is about how you think, prepare and execute under pressure. Drawing on lessons from elite sport, this article explains how to develop a high-performance mindset for your career and apply it in real life and work.
Leadership Doesn’t Always Look Like Leadership
Leadership is often associated with titles, authority and visibility. The person at the front of the room. The one making the final call. The one whose name appears on the org chart.
But after twenty years working inside elite sport, I have learned something different.
Some of the most effective leadership I have ever witnessed did not come from those with the loudest voice or the biggest role. It came from people operating quietly under pressure, steadying others, protecting standards and holding teams together when it mattered most.
This is the kind of leadership that rarely gets recognised, but it is the kind that builds trust, resilience and sustained performance.
The Real Source of Confidence: What Sport Teaches Us About Performing When It Matters
Confidence does not come first. It is created through clarity, repetition and steady progress. Here is what elite sport teaches us about performing with confidence when it matters.
The Four Foundations of High Performance: Lessons From 20 Years in Professional Sport
High performance isn’t about motivation — it’s about structure.
After 20 years in professional sport, I’ve seen the same four foundations separate those who perform under pressure from those who fade.
They’re not complicated. They’re simple, repeatable, and they work in everyday life just as well as they do on the field.
How to Build Your Momentum Map: The 5 I’s That Keep You Moving (without burning out)
When life feels like a constant juggle, motivation won’t save you — structure will. The Momentum Map is a sport-inspired system built around the 5 I’s of focus and flow: Impact, Influence, Innovation, Imagination, and Inspiration. Learn how to balance your energy, find rhythm, and move forward with clarity.
Falling Down Isn’t the Problem. Staying Down Is.
Three ways to reset and rise again when life knocks you flat.
I’ve seen world-class athletes make mistakes on the biggest stages — missed kicks, dropped catches, lost finals.
What separates the ones who succeed isn’t that they never fall. It’s that they find a way to get back up — again and again.
The same applies to us. Life will floor you sometimes — but what matters is how quickly you reset and rise.
In this week’s blog, I’m sharing three mental shifts that help you do exactly that, plus the free Gratitude for Pressuremeditation I still use to reset when things feel heavy.
How to Get Back Up After Setbacks: 3 Mental Resets from the Touchline
Falling down isn’t the problem. Staying down is.
It’s something I saw time and again working in professional sport. Even the best athletes in the world make mistakes. They drop the ball, miss the shot, or lose the final. What set the greats apart wasn’t that they never fell — but how quickly they got back up.
3 Lessons Sport Taught Me (That You Can Use in Everyday Life)
Sport has always been my greatest teacher.
Not because I was an athlete — but because I spent over 20 years inside professional sport, watching what it really takes to perform under pressure.
And here’s the thing: those lessons don’t stay on the pitch. They’re just as powerful in the office, at home, or when you’re chasing personal goals.
How to Build Unstoppable Confidence: Lessons from Behind the Scenes in Pro Sport
Confidence is often seen as a mysterious trait — something you either have or you don’t. But after 20 years working behind the scenes in professional sport, I’ve learned that confidence is built. It’s a mindset cultivated through daily habits, mindset shifts, and small wins.
Staying Motivated When Progress Feels Slow
In my 20 years supporting elite athletes behind the scenes in professional sport, I saw firsthand that progress is rarely a straight line. There are times when you feel on fire and unstoppable, and then there are those long stretches where it feels like you’re stuck — putting in the work but not seeing results.
Why Embracing Setbacks is Key to Growth
In my years working behind the scenes in professional sport, I saw firsthand how the greatest athletes don’t just win when things go perfectly — they win because they know how to handle setbacks and failures.
Setbacks aren’t a sign of defeat; they’re opportunities to learn, grow, and come back stronger. I remember witnessing athletes recover from injury or tough losses by focusing on what they could control — their mindset and their effort moving forward.
5 Simple Habits to Boost Your Productivity
Having spent years working alongside elite athletes and sports professionals, I’ve seen firsthand how success is built not on motivation alone but on consistent daily habits. These habits become the foundation that supports peak performance, especially when motivation dips or challenges arise.
Whether you’re managing a busy work schedule, family commitments, or personal goals, establishing effective habits is essential to maintain productivity without burning out.
How to Silence Your Inner Critic
When I worked behind the scenes in professional sport, one of the most striking things I saw was how top performers managed their inner dialogue. The difference between thriving and struggling often came down to how well they handled that critical inner voice.
Your inner critic — that voice in your head telling you you’re not good enough or can’t do it — can be your biggest obstacle. But it doesn’t have to control you.
The Power of Small Wins: Build Momentum Every Day
In my 20 years working behind the scenes in professional sport, one lesson stood out more than any other: the real game-changer isn’t always the big moments — it’s the small wins you build every day.
I’ve seen athletes face incredible pressure, and the ones who succeed are those who celebrate and build on tiny victories — whether it’s a well-executed drill, maintaining focus through a tough session, or recovering well after an injury. These small wins build confidence, fuel motivation, and create momentum.
Unlock Your Winning Mindset: How Small Daily Habits Lead to Big Life Wins
Throughout my 20 years working behind the scenes in professional sport, one thing became crystal clear: winning doesn’t come from sudden bursts of effort or magic moments — it comes from the consistent, intentional habits you build every day.
I’ve seen athletes who meticulously focus on the small details — their breathing, their preparation routines, their mental reset techniques — and over time these small habits compound into major performance improvements. The same applies to life and your goals.
3 Mindset Myths Holding You Back
When I first started working behind the scenes in professional sport, I quickly realised how much mindset shapes performance — not just talent or effort. But I also saw a lot of misconceptions that hold people back from reaching their potential.
Here are three of the most common mindset myths I’ve encountered — and why breaking free from them can unlock your growth.
How to Manage Overwhelm and Get Back in Control
Overwhelm is a feeling we’ve all experienced, especially in today’s fast-paced world. I’ve faced it many times myself during my 20 years working behind the scenes in professional sport — juggling tight deadlines, high expectations, and the constant pressure to perform. What I’ve learned is that overwhelm isn’t a sign of failure; it’s a signal that your mind and body need a reset.
“I have spent 20 years in sport and sport has taught me everything I have needed to know to create success in my life. I’m not just talking about earning money here, I’m talking about relationships, parenting, working on my own businesses, even planning our wedding. All of the methods and processes I utilised in sport, I have applied to my own life.” - KATE ORAM